Hmm...So I'm starting to get used to hearing people tell me how much I keep my guards up. Is there something wrong with that? I mean, everyone should be guarded to a certain extent, right?
When I usually first meet someone, I'm not too open. They tell me that I am quiet and keep my words short. Wow.
I feel it is necessary to be like that. I like to carefully choose who I let in my life. But, people can definitely agree that, when I do open up, I can be the greatest friend a person could have.
....Just some thoughts....
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I feel u.. An I think it's perfectly fine to put ur guards up to a certain extent because the reality of it is that everybody isn't out to hurt u. But u do also have those ill intended ppl.. I think u should always watch over ur shoulder for those types but at the same time never miss out on a chance to befriend someone who u know is passionate and ginuine about getting to kno u. I think the most common mistake ppl make is thinking that they have to reveal their inner most secrets in order to become closer friends or in order to relate. But there are many other ways to form friendships such as finding someones interests an etc.
ReplyDeleteSo basically I'm saying keep ur gaurds when u need to an relax when u feel safe. <---- sorry for the long drawn out comment. I love blogs an I really enjoyed urs